I was talking to Kev about how ￼our parenting styles are so different and that because of his￼ patience his parenting to me, is more effective￼￼. ￼In our marriage, we discuss frequently how we should treat each of our kids such as what’s really worth the fight and what we really need to go easy on with our kids.
Do you ever wonder, how Jesus would navigate the tension in your household? ￼Jesus was all grace and all truth all the time with the disciples and they weren’t his kids, but they were his friends￼. Maybe this is not a good comparison￼, however the point is to consistently give grace to our kids and to consistently be patient with them because that’s exactly how Jesus is with us. ￼I am guilty of being a crappy parent and I have learned over the years how to be more patient, more kind and more loving.￼ I believe that you can learn all of these things too.￼
Jesus laid the foundation for us by showing us the new covenant command which is to love others as Jesus loves us. Following that principle￼ will make you a better parent as well as you will learn to exercise more patience. I don’t want to get too deep into psychological issues because I understand that if you have a history of trauma and unresolved emotional wounds from your past, of course that’s going to spill into your parenting. ￼ I’m just talking about simply following what God has laid out for us which is to love your children and to try to have patience with them.
When they have autism and special needs this can be very difficult at times and I totally understand. ￼However, Love isn’t pushy and it chooses to move at the other persons pace since God moves at our pace so we are to do the same for all our children. Let’s try to do that especially in this season! ￼
“Love is patient and kind, never jealous, boastful, proud, or” 1 Corinthians 13:4
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